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number 9 tho
number fucking 9. there was a dude that would play his guitar outside of my window at 1 am all the time
Some bits that I’ve picked up:
There’s a general rule of college that if you were sitting in that seat for over two weeks, that is your seat. Not many if any professors have seating arrangements but switching seats will fuck everyone up.
Get there early and stay late. As soon as you get home you will not want to do shit. Stay on campus and do some homework while you’re in the environment.
SIT UP FRONT. The best way to start understanding something is to listen to someone talk about it and you can’t do that from the back of the class trying to listen over everyone whispering to each other. LISTENING WILL MAKE HOMEWORK SO MUCH EASIER.
Be childish, but be respectful. Have a massive snowball fight across campus, but don’t aim for anyone not taking part.
SHUT THE FUCK UP IN THE LIBRARY. Some people work there, some people sleep there. It is a quiet space.
Don’t be afraid to talk to professors. They are not there to flunk you. They would rather you pass than not.
IF YOU NEED TUTORING GET TUTORING DON’T WAIT UNTIL YOU’VE DUG YOURSELF INTO YOUR GRAVE.
Get involved. It will help you make friends, give you new skills to learn, and even help you get a leg up in the work place if you know the right people.
I will add to this as a GTA:
Take time for yourself—buy a planner, figure out when your best study hours are, figure out WHERE you study best, and figure out how much time you need to complete an assignment—AND THEN make sure to pencil in an hour for video games, some time to watch a TV show, or time to just lay on your floor and blow bubbles. Whatever you like. Don’t forget about YOU.
SLEEP. EAT. DRINK WATER. Don’t die. Caffeine =/= sleep. I cannot emphasize that this much.
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY:
COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR INSTRUCTORS! If you’re sick, shoot an e-mail and say “Hey, I’m sick today. Can I set up a time to talk to you about what I missed?” If you’ve got a good opportunity (scholarships, to go to another country, to check out a cool lecture, etc.) let your prof know ahead of time. If you just need time to work on projects, all it takes is an e-mail. We understand. I gave a student a free skip day because he e-mailed me and said “Hey, look, I have two massive tests and a project due and I need the time to study.” And THAT IS OKAY.
However, sometimes you just need a personal day, and you know what, when you wake up and getting out of bed seems like the worst idea ever….just turn off your alarm and get that sleep.
Some additionally tid-bits that might help you
- Before signing up for classes, look on “ratemyprofessor.com" and see if the teachers at your campus are included. There may be two or more teachers for the same course, and you want to try and pick the good/easy one. Who your professor is can have a great affect on what grade you make, even for the "same" class.
- Look for a facebook group for your "graduating class" set up, which is a good way to make friends and find people with similar interests (particularly for introverts).
- Look for a facebook group for each of your courses. If there isn’t one, MAKE ONE and send it out via the course email or word of mouth. These groups are helpful for if you missed class and need the notes, and especially for review time before exams.
- If no one else does it, make a google doc of the exam reviews and post it on the class facebook page. That way everyone contributes to the review. 200 brains are most definitely better than 1.
- During lectures, unless Internet is required, TURN IT OFF. If it’s on, you WILL end up on tumblr or some other site, and you will miss important shit.
- For the love of God, pay attention to your syllabus. Sometimes assignments are listed there, and that’s the only place it’ll be mentioned. Also, if it says to do a reading by a specific date, DO THE READING BY THAT DATE. Otherwise you will get behind, and you will have 200+ pages of textbooks to read in one night before the test, and you will cry.
- Yes you actually need to do the readings. Yes it is a lot. Yes it will suck. Do it anyways.
- If you are used to getting all A’s, do not cry when you get a B. Take it from someone who killed herself for two years to maintain a 4.0, it feels like the end of the world when your GPA drops, but it’s not. You’ll be okay. Just breathe and do your best. Your best is good enough.
Try to make sure you leave an open hour around midday so that you have time to get food in you. A lot of people forget to do this. If you have to have back to back classes, check your syllabus or with your teacher—some midday classes allow you to bring in a drink and a snack. Some will even allow you a full meal.
If you can get an online/pdf copy of the book without busting the bank, DO IT. Sometimes there are even annotated versions online. This can make notetaking a shitton easier, because you can highlight printed-out versions of the book and they won’t dock you on the money back. Sometimes professors move through their lecture too fast for you to write stuff down. Shrugging off that old ‘don’t ruin your books’ rule you had in high school may be your only hope.
UNLESS YOU NEED THEM OR REALLY WANT TO KEEP THEM TRY TO SELL BACK YOUR BOOKS—maybe even offer them online to incoming students. You won’t get nearly the worth of them but someone after you will thank you a million times over for providing a used copy. If you take good notes, you can sometimes buy/sell those as well. A lot of professors teach literally the same class every time.
IF YOUR PROFESSOR PUTS NOTES ONLINE GET THEM. GET THEM NOW. TRUST ME. YOU WANT THOSE NOTES. Bring them in with you if it’s possible to get them before class.
Keep change on hand. Always.
The Best Way To Make Friends:
Bring a printer with you to college and offer to print people’s stuff for half of what the school does or for free if you can afford it.
Carry around small candies with you and offer them to people while waiting outside of class. If you are the ‘candy person’ this gives you an in for starting conversations.
Buy a jumbo pack of chalk and find an open sidewalk on a free day. Write the words ‘Come draw with me?’ and begin doodling.
Have a pack of cards.
Last But Not Least: if you go onto campus and you can’t find what you’re looking for, and you are afraid to go up to someone and ask, find an open, well-populated area, hold your schedule/map in hand, and walk in circles for a few minutes, looking up and around in obvious confusion. Other students know this body language well. Someone will stop and point you in the right direction. (if you are worried that the person’s directions are a joke or faulty, wait for them to leave and take up the stance again; if the directions match-up the second time, they’re legit; do not allow a person to ‘show you the way’ unless EVERY STEP is along an obvious walkway, just in case)
For those of you who fear assault, most campuses aren’t much for small blades or mace. Carry a pocket air horn or a hand bag of those little pop-rock fireworks unless you can get a concealed weapons permit.
Adding my own tidbit:
Make friends with transfer kids. Chances are, they won’t be able to live in the dorms and it’ll be ten times harder for them to meet people since they have to drive to and from campus. It’s also fun hearing about their experiences before the college you both go to.
Make friends with an older student. I’m talking about students who have families and full-time jobs. You can learn a lot from them, and they honestly have the best stories. They’re often the smartest and the most dedicated, so they make great study buddies.
all of this is so true tho
Whoo hoo! I’m gonna need this :D
Yes to all of this. Also, here’s my add-on: ALWAYS GO TO CLASS UNLESS YOU ARE REALLY, REALLY SICK. GO. TO. CLASS. My college experience was not even close to what I wanted it to be because of this. My first year right after high school was a joke as I was not ready to go away to college and ended up coming home. WHICH IS FINE. If you don’t want to move away, don’t. Go to a college close to home or save yourself a ton of money and go to community college for two years first. Not everyone has to move away to enjoy college and become independent. Everyone grows up at their own pace and that is 100000% okay.
STORY TIME SORRY NOT SORRY PLEASE LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES YOUNG ONES:
Anyway, after I came home is when things got bad. I basically ended up taking a year and a half off from school and it was the worst decision of my life. I didn’t sleep, I laid around all day, I “enjoyed” myself. I did get a job when we moved, but the bad habits continued. I wouldn’t sleep at night, and slept all day until I had to go to work. I didn’t go out and do anything with myself. I didn’t really have any fun. When I started school again, I couldn’t shake those bad habits to save my life. I’d choose sleep over going to class because by that time I couldn’t sleep at night anymore and it fucked me up big time. My first semester back at school, I failed one class and got D’s in two others. And for me? It was the worst thing in the world. I had graduated high school with honors, I took all the advanced classes they tell you to take to prepare for college and get early college credit, and my first real semester of college I fucked it up.
I spent a lot of my college years hating myself for not being to do things better (and I still do most days). I did get better at going to class, but I never had perfect attendance, not even one semester, because I was at constant war with myself over not sleeping at night and wanting to sleep in the day, like I had for about 2 years straight. I just graduated in May with my Bachelor’s degree and a not bad 3.1 GPA, but it should have been much, much higher, and it would have been had I been able to go to class consistently.
So here’s my advice, straight from a recent graduate who fucked things up and is still learning my lessons from it:
1. SLEEP AT NIGHT. One cannot survive on caffeine and naps, no matter what stereotypes you’ve heard about college. Sleep is important, and while you want to have fun in college, you’re also paying a ton of money to learn stuff, so do that.
2. I repeat: GO TO CLASS. Still tired? Suck it up. Don’t get into my bad habit of skipping class to sleep in because you will not be happy in the end. Your professors aren’t going to like you if you constantly miss class, and guess what? You’ll need some of them to be references when you graduate, and they’re not going to lie about your ability to show up regularly.
3. Have fun, but be responsible. Again, you’re paying an arm and a leg to learn, not drink yourself into a stupor. If that’s what you’re aiming for, just stay home and get a job and party all you want, but don’t waste your money and everyone’s time turning college into a joke.
4. Take your time. Guess what? I just got my degree, and I’m 25. I went to college with people much older than me who were getting their first degree as well. There’s no time-table as to when you have to do things, and I wish someone had told me that when I graduated high school. It took me forever to get my degree, and I spent a lot of time feeling like something was wrong with me. I was just getting my Associate’s degree and transferring to get my Bachelor’s when a lot of my friends from high school were graduating with their Bachelor’s and getting jobs. It sucked at the time, but now? I’m really, really glad I took the path I did, because I ended up changing my major and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. I love what I studied and I’m excited to get a job in my field, so it happened for a reason. Unfortunately, a lot of your future rides on what you choose to do in college, so don’t rush it. If you’re unsure, take the time to find out what you love, what you want to do with your life, and you’ll be so happy you did.
/done. Sorry guys, I just want other people to enjoy college and not make my mistakes! :D
— The House of Hades, Rick Riordan (via percyandheroesquotes)
STOP EVERYTHING YOU’RE DOING AND WATCH THIS VIDEO OF A TINY BIRD SNEEZING
why are people so caught up in romanticizing the past? romanticize the future. there will be robots and slightly more equality
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YOU GO GIRL
— Joshua Graham (via sunshine-and-liberty)
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Marrying young is not the end of my freedom. It means I want to travel and see the world, but with her by my side. It means I still like drinking in bars and dancing in clubs, but stumbling home with her at 2am and eating pizza in our underwear. It means I know that I want to kiss those lips every morning, and every night before bed. If you see marriage as the end of your ‘freedom’, you’re doing it wrong.
Well this was just beautiful
NEED MONEY FOR COLLEGE
NEED COLLEGE FOR JOB
NEED JOB FOR MONEY
WHO THE FREAK DESIGNED THIS SYSTEM
NEED EXPERIENCE FOR JOB
NEED JOB TO GET EXPERIENCE
NEED CAR FOR JOB
NEED JOB FOR CAR
90% of my anxiety in a text post
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